Sometimes “Suck it the fuck up” is good advice, sometimes it isnt. Sometimes “Process this later” is healthy, sometimes it isnt.
Emotional health is knowing what you need and when.
I’m a huge fan of embrace the suck and cut slingload
“Embrace the suck” is a big one for me. I work outdoors and unless the weather is dangerous you still have to get it done. So when proper shit weather hits I just laugh now because while its going to be terrible its going to be an experience.
Like that time I did 10 hours in 40c heat during a dust storm, wearing a respirator. Worst day ever… hell of an experience though.
I honestly read this and until I saw the comments I assumed they were gaming and she locked in league champ select which is a valid time to cry seeing as youre about to play league.
What does ‘lock in’ mean in this situation?
Yours faithfully,
a confused Brit.
Steady on.
Buck up. Suck it up. Maintain an even strain. I get it.
👍
Stiff upper lip old chap!
God, it’s like none of you speak Brit.
I see it as Stay Focused
Gen Z slang for saying “get it together and focus”
Ah ok, thanks.
Where I’m from a lock in is a pub illegally serving drinkers after time by locking the doors.
Ok… So maybe this is a dumb question, but is it helpful to hear that when you’re having a hard time?
i think it could be, depending upon circumstances. likewise, i think it could also be actively harmful (depending upon circumstances).
And personality type.
Traditionally, to be “locked in” on something would mean to be locked in on your target, goal, etc.
Telling someone to lock in or “lock it in” is kind of like a nice way of saying “get your shit together” or “focus up”. I hear it in sports/ gaming lingo.
So it’s something like ‘man up’. Ok, I can understand that.
There are negative connotations around “man up”
“Lock in” it just a fancy way to say, focus. But with a “we’ve got this” vibe to it.
gaming lingo
I see. So just press
Tab, right?Just press
F10
It’s akin to “get over it” in this context.
I say less get over it and more “you got this”
Thank you.
After all the stories about how male authors can’t do realistic female characters, someone reversed it and asked how could you instantly tell if it was a woman describing a man.
The book ‘The Outsiders’ is about a bunch of tough guys who spend a lot of time talking about their feelings.
Stay gold, Ponyboy. (Wow, that name aged strangely.)
Stay rizzed, everypony
Llama 3.3 70B
Yaaas, lemme give you the skibidi scoop on The Outsiders. It’s a whole vibe of a story about a squad of Greasers who are low-key tryin’ to get that rizz in a world where the Socs are runnin’ the game. Ponyboy, the main simp, is narratin’ the whole thing, and he’s all about that book-smart life, no cap.
So, the Greasers are like, a gang of brothers and friends who are tryin’ to get that bag, but they’re also all about that loyalty and friendship, you feel? They’re a whole skibidi crew, with Ponyboy, Sodapop, Darry, Johnny, Dallas, and Two-Bit all bringin’ the heat. They’re not just some randoms, they’re a real squad, and they’ve got each other’s backs, no matter what.
But, bruh, the Socs are like, the ultimate haters. They’re all about that prep life, and they think they’re better than the Greasers just ‘cause they’ve got more clout. They’re always tryin’ to get under the Greasers’ skin, and it’s a whole thing. There’s a rumble, and it gets pretty turnt up. Johnny has to get all scuffed up and kill one of the Socs in self-defense, and it’s a whole skibidi situation.
The rest of the story is like, a wild ride of emotions, with the Greasers dealin’ with the aftermath of the rumble and tryin’ to stay one step ahead of the popo. It’s a real tear-jerker, tbh. But, for real, The Outsiders is a classic coming-of-age tale that’s all about gettin’ that rizz, stayin’ true to yourself, and not lettin’ the haters bring you down, you know? It’s a whole mood, and if you haven’t read it yet, you need to get on that skibidi grind, ASAP.
Why do you wish to cause such pain in the world?
I think the middleground between toxic masculinity and overly emotion dumping femcels is a great target.
wtf did I just read
Idk dude, idk.
This comment makes your first one even funnier 😆
