• JayDee@lemmy.sdf.org
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    4 days ago

    A relationship is not special because you fuck. It is special because you’re with a person you mesh well with. No amount of fucking will save a relationship that is not built on mutual compatibility.

      • RBWells@lemmy.world
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        9 hours ago

        I mean, it depends on how old you are, right? I did a 22 year monogamous stretch, but before that and between that and my husband now (10 years so far monogamous) got around some & had fun, my # would doubtless be shocking to many if I could even figure it out but it doesn’t mean I can’t be in a stable relationship, I was before and am now too. Husband similar story.

        Some of us can enjoy recreational sex and also enjoy committed relationships.

        • sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works
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          6 hours ago

          Oh sure. I’m just saying that most people with a ton of partners probably aren’t interested in settling into a commited relationship. There are always exceptions.