• RBWells@lemmy.world
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      1
      ·
      9 hours ago

      I mean, it depends on how old you are, right? I did a 22 year monogamous stretch, but before that and between that and my husband now (10 years so far monogamous) got around some & had fun, my # would doubtless be shocking to many if I could even figure it out but it doesn’t mean I can’t be in a stable relationship, I was before and am now too. Husband similar story.

      Some of us can enjoy recreational sex and also enjoy committed relationships.

      • sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        1
        ·
        6 hours ago

        Oh sure. I’m just saying that most people with a ton of partners probably aren’t interested in settling into a commited relationship. There are always exceptions.