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Cake day: June 13th, 2023

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  • Reddit te dirais Quitte là (avant que l’auteur du commentaire se plaigne d’être célibataire dans un autre thread), La pillule rouge te dirais un tas de trucs hyper violent.

    Blague à part, non t’es pas le trou de balle. À un moment, le but d’un couple c’est aussi de passer du temps à deux. Vous devez pas forcément tout faire ensemble tout le temps, mais déjà accepter un seul week-end ensemble en 5 semaines, c’est déjà pas se voir beaucoup, alors vouloir l’annuler c’est normal que ça te fasse réagir.

    Imagine la situation inverse, tu prends une semaine de vacance seul avant de partir en voyage d’affaire et le seul week-end où tu es à la maison tu invites quelqu’un de ta famille. comment elle le prendrait ?






  • Social reproduction of the elites. Which is the advanced version of kids do the same job as their parents

    Getting with parents with money and connection is a huge cheat code. While some people have to work to pay their rent at university, some other have their parents buying them an appartement. Guess who can afford to volunteer in a political party, do art or develop software on the side ? Some people do have family with connection which means they’ll be able to meet the right person to finance their project while many other stop at this step. It’s why it’s hard to join the elite when your family isn’t part of the elite for multiple generations.

    And many immigrant end-up at the lower-level of the social pyramid, their kids grow up with parents who have no money, no connection, and sometimes don’t even know the language. which make them harder for them to climb the “social ladder” a generation latter their kids don’t have nay kickstart, so it’s not surprising that very few are represented in position in power, even if their family has been around for over 100 years. And without any surprise the one who do often have been part of the elite before immigrating.