I absolutely believe you as i had a rommie with which i cuddled. She told me that she is not attracted to me at all so there was no thoughts about romance or sex. I loved it and i miss it but i also have to admit that my very stupid brain would fall in love with any women (not related to me) that cuddles with me repeatedly.
and this is why i consider a partner a prerequisite for a lot of my improved mental health, my lizard brain needs that… hole… filled before it can quiet down and let me get on with things.
I absolutely believe you as i had a rommie with which i cuddled. She told me that she is not attracted to me at all so there was no thoughts about romance or sex. I loved it and i miss it but i also have to admit that my very stupid brain would fall in love with any women (not related to me) that cuddles with me repeatedly.
and this is why i consider a partner a prerequisite for a lot of my improved mental health, my lizard brain needs that… hole… filled before it can quiet down and let me get on with things.
sad for the people that struggle to find a partner
i am sad