• Snowclone@lemmy.world
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      3 days ago

      I can’t even imagine needing this explained to me. Probably like you likely can’t imagine what’s it’s like to be the ‘other’ society deems outside of the ‘normal’.

      So what are we talking about in this thread. Do you know? We’re talking about being fetishized by your race, ethnicity, what have you. How do you identify someone interested in a kink they want to explore and not interested in YOU. What would identify that situation for you?

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      It’s not about the dad, it’s about the prospective mate thinking it’s noteworthy. They could say that and then their dad doesn’t give even a little bit of a shit about it.

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        It’s not about the dad, it’s about the prospective mate thinking it’s noteworthy.

        to be clear… prospective mate thinking what is noteworthy?

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          The problem is that she’s interested because his ethnicity is taboo (her dad would flip), not because of who he is as a person.