• MarcomachtKuchen@feddit.org
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    3 days ago

    Do lesbians refer to themselves as butch or femme during dating or is this something that only parts of the community do?

    • JustAnotherKay@lemmy.world
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      3 days ago

      Once you’re in a relationship it doesn’t really matter much. These terms exist in a similar way to “goth” or “preppy” in that they basically just describe a vibe/aesthetic. They’re mainly only used when describing one’s “type”