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minus-squaremagic_smoke@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up11·edit-222 days agoIt can be as simple as a married couple with side flings. I don’t think its inherently bad, but the idea of having a full polycule with a set hierarchy definitely feels weird. Whatever makes people happy I guess
minus-squareOf the Air (cele/celes)@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up4·22 days agoSadly, in hierarchical relationships usually at least one person is treated like shit. So personally we do see them as very much bad.
minus-squaremagic_smoke@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3·22 days agoOh that’s gross. Never been in a poly relationship so I don’t have much experience.
minus-squareNexy@lemmy.sdf.orglinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·20 days agoWell, to be fair, you can be treated like shit in a monogamous relationship too.
minus-squareOf the Air (cele/celes)@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3·20 days agoYes. This post wasn’t about that though.
It can be as simple as a married couple with side flings. I don’t think its inherently bad, but the idea of having a full polycule with a set hierarchy definitely feels weird.
Whatever makes people happy I guess
Sadly, in hierarchical relationships usually at least one person is treated like shit. So personally we do see them as very much bad.
Oh that’s gross. Never been in a poly relationship so I don’t have much experience.
Well, to be fair, you can be treated like shit in a monogamous relationship too.
Yes. This post wasn’t about that though.