Start talking about something and get so lost on tangents trying to explain all the precursory information they need to understand that original thing I haven’t explained yet that I’m now debating something entirely unrelated and have forgotten the original point I’m trying to make.
Bonus points if I end up losing my train of thought during one of the tangents and now don’t even know what I said two seconds ago and have still forgotten the original point I was trying to make.
Also not being able to do simple things I plan/need to do, like laundry or writing an email, but then spend 4hrs straight building something incredibly complex from scratch just to test a random theory I had that has no other usefulness.
Mid-sentence brain farts, trying to finish your sentences, extreme procrastination, projects started but not done, a thousand hobbies.
That’s just the easy to see ones.
Being mentally paralyzed and unable to execute on anything other than doom scrolling for 4 years.
forgetting what I was talking about mid-sentence
asking someone what they just asked me to do 30 seconds ago because I didn’t write it down fast enough
doing requests immediately even if they’re not urgent because otherwise I’ll forget
procrastinating showering long enough that my hair is visibly dirty 😞
I doodle incessantly. Like whole pages that are 20% notes, 80% doodles. I had a teacher in middle school who got mad because it seemed like I was constantly distracted (true) and had me stop, but then discovered it was 10x worse if I was not doing something with my hands. Meanwhile my most recent boss looked over at my pad during our first in-person meeting and said, “ah, so you have ADHD too?”
That’s so wholesome. I’ve just told everyone I’ve ever worked for “I have to write and doodle to process information”, and after a few well timed comments they accepted it. I’ve been late because I had to grab a notepad, I’ve been questioned why I was taking notes when they were already writing down the tasks for everyone… Eventually they just all accepted I doodle and take incomprehensible notes during meetings
If I had a boss who just recognized why I do all that, I’d instantly feel more loyal to them. I mean, assuming they’re a good boss otherwise